Keep your goals realistic and achievable. Take one step at a time.
Most people want to bypass the baby steps they require to build the commitment and have gradual change which then changes brain chemistry especially thoughts and gives them tenacity and perseverance. By bypassing they do not retrain their minds to think differently. This is something we all need when we make changes in our lives... Keep the end goal in sight and in the meantime work with the steps that will get you there.
Sometimes timing isn't right and we need to look at what we are holding onto, usually a belief that you aren't aware of or not letting go of. Work out what needs to be done in that area and get professional assistance to help you with this like such as a life coach or kinesiologist. Generally it's unfinished business where you know on some level that if you move to the next step without having created marked changes in that particular area or phase of life then you'll be jumping from the frying pan into the fire.
A smoother landing on greener pastures means tending to the pasture you have now and having this pasture be as good as the other one then moving forward means having a greater comfort zone then previously and thus being able to broaden your horizons.. And on the other hand you can go and frolick in the greener pastures in the meantime and learn from that experience and bring it back within you so your world reflects that.
There are also times where evolution will force you to bypass certain developments and emerge completely different to where you envisaged yourself to be. These are the pioneers - visionaries with a higher sense of purpose - and visionaries too had to persist and be tenacious and were most likely fearful of change - yet they did not let that stop them from following their hearts. They too had to keep an end goal in mind. What they get is different but generally much grander effecting change not just to self but to others.
Change will and does occur when you commit yourself to something and apply all the necessary actions required to effect the change. In order to harvest your good you need to sow and before that you need to prepare yourself (tilling the soil). This is where your mind, body and spirit will need to be aligned to create flow. So work on all of these areas to create whatever it is you wish to in your life.
